My child has a forensic interview - what do I do?

If we’ve reached out to schedule an appointment for a forensic interview, you’re in the right place. If you are looking to report suspected abuse please go here for more information.

What should I say?

Investigators may have instructed you not to discuss the alleged abuse with your child. If your child talks to you about a traumatic experience, absolutely listen and offer reassurance, but try not to ask for more details, this can sometimes complicate things in the pursuit of healing and justice. Your response to your child’s disclosure can have a lasting impact. We want you to feel prepared when responding to your child’s needs following the disclosure of abuse. Follow these key points to best care for the child in this difficult time.

  • Actively listen - don’t interrupt the child’s disclosure, and don’t press for details. Thank them for telling you and emphasize that you want to keep them safe.

  • Believe the child - children may be afraid of coming forward about abuse, especially if part of the abuse dynamic was to tell them no one would believe them.

  • Stay calm - children may internalize your reactions as something they’ve caused. If they see you in pain, angry, sad, etc. they may become reluctant to talk about what’s happened to protect people they love.

  • Make a plan for safety - work with our family advocates on planning for safety. Make sure the alleged perpetrator doesn’t have continued access to you or your child(ren).

  • You're not alone. - child physical and sexual abuse is an epidemic that many have faced. There is still a lot of stigma surrounding abuse that can make people feel like they can’t talk about it. You’re not alone. It’s important that you identify safe people that can help check-in on you during this time.

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So what will happen when I’m there?

Advocacy

When you arrive, an advocate will help you settle into our family room. Your assigned advocate is there to support you throughout this process. They will work with you to identify strengths and needs, make a plan for safety and healing, and connect you to community supports like food security, safety planning, assistance with PPOs, and much more!

Advocates follow up with families to check in on goals, continue finding resources, and accompany you to court if the case moves forward. Your advocate will speak to you briefly before meeting with the team to discuss the case. Afterward, your child(ren) will meet our Forensic Interviewer one-on-one while the advocate meets with you to collaborate on your questions, concerns, and needs.

Forensic Interview

A forensic interview is an exploratory, child-centered, truth-seeking, non-leading conversation between a trained professional and a child used to inform decision-making in the investigation of child abuse and neglect. These interviews are recorded and observed by MDT members.

Meeting MDT

There may be time during your appointment dedicated to speaking with your assigned detective, and/or CPS worker, to discuss the next steps in their investigation. MDT members may elect to follow up with you at a later time if unable to meet during your appointment. An advocate can coordinate questions you have for the team or about the investigation and will ensure you have their contact information.

What happens next?

The MDT will inform you what will happen next in their investigations. Your family advocate will be in contact with you and continue to support you as needed. Your child may feel emotional after the interview and ask for space, or they may want closeness and comfort. Be there for them, ask them how it went and how they are doing, but don’t ask for details of what was discussed. Maintain a normal schedule as much as possible. If they typically go to afterschool activities, check if they feel well enough to attend and encourage them to stay engaged in social activities they enjoy. Social supports, and hobbies that allow kids/ teens to feel confident and competent will help them to feel resilient.

If your child(ren) are not in therapy services already, work with your advocate to find a provider in-network. A great starting place is Community Mental Health serving Clinton, Eaton, and Ingham Counties.